Any Advice 2

[CW2017]

Hi GW
I went through a strange couple of days on vacation recently. Once I had fully unwound from work (and I was particularly exhausted this year for obvious reasons!) I entertained the idea of driving a relatively short distance to beat the absolute **** out of the OM which is very unlike me. My reasoning was that no matter what the W had done he was the one whispering in her ear all the time and I could gauge this in her modified conversational technique (plus the whole pursed lips lowered tone business in her speech patterns), I guess this whole "revenge" thing is just human nature ultimately.

As I am now in a good place mentally (with my own versions of GAL and detaching) I am taking the attitude of if it is still going on it will out itself eventually and then I will make my move (which I hope never happens). We are extremely close now and I am hoping for the best as I am not going to snoop any more (nothing since June now) and will instead rely on my gut. So I agree with everyone else in the sense that any sort of gratification is just destructive in the long run.

So more power to you in whatever you choose to do

CW