Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc


When you are IN IT, it's hard to see the forest for the trees. Somehow my self protection mode is on right now, and as you say, I'm trying hard to stay focused on the finish line.


Truer words have never been spoken. I find myself reading other's journeys and I am like," Oh I know what I would do!" when in reality I am making the same errors and expecting different outcomes. But when there is so much emotion at play we don't work strategically.


M 10yrs T 13yrs
BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW
BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off
Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce
April '17-Letting go
2018 D busted
DD8, DS6, DS3