When you are IN IT, it's hard to see the forest for the trees. Somehow my self protection mode is on right now, and as you say, I'm trying hard to stay focused on the finish line.
Truer words have never been spoken. I find myself reading other's journeys and I am like," Oh I know what I would do!" when in reality I am making the same errors and expecting different outcomes. But when there is so much emotion at play we don't work strategically.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3