Ex-h: Could have just gave them 4 each and kept 8 For things you may need around the house or stuff you may have to fix. Or for what ever. I'm gonna let them spend 1k each on clothes when i have them
Me:Thank you! You should have given my share to gf
Ex-h:Keep your stupid thoughts to your self.
Me: Why on earth would you reward me??? I am nothing to you...
Ex-h: Don't [censored]'n start txting me bull [censored]!
Me: Then tell me why
Ex-h:Don't [censored]'n bother me Diane. Only when it's about the kids. Today was just another reminder of the way you're. So don't bother me.
Me: I know.... i M NOTHING Thanks for your generosity.. Faith wants a car...
Ex-h: That's for when she's done school Diane. Don't be stupid
Me: don' t worry... she uses mine. By the way who i am: reliable, responsable,.organised, devoted, always there, ponctual, independant, LOVEABLE, great listener, kind, faithful.... If i am not those things to you, ask yourself why
Ex-h: Don't bother me Diane.
Me:I' m sending that form signed through Sarah... i don' t deserve nothing from you. You have trashed me years ago. Physically and internally, for LIFE!! Thank you for that! You now have the kids accnt.. you or Kim can give it to them personnally.. i told you you would not have to see or hear from me ever again once the kids were taken care of.... they are... THE END.
Loving people is not money... your father shows up at your door with 100 000 .. how do you feel? We all need the same thing you do. We are all human. We need love, attention, security, appreciation, respect, care, pride. If we feel like others don' t see these things in us, we are doing all this for nothing , we feel like we are nothing. When it comes to children: they need to know you are proud of the person they are.they need encouragement when rhey doubt themselves. Nelson, i loved you like no one else ever will.. i gave my all to you and them. Unfortunately, our separation destroyed me to pieces. I am marked for life. A battle only me can work on. You want to make it up to your children? Look at what they need physically and EMOTIONALLY and step up to the plate. This is my last communication with you from my end. If you want that money back, i' ll give it back.
