I received a text from ex-h telling me to meet him at the bank in 45 min. I was at work. I did not see the point of me going.i sent him the accnt numbers for the children. He replied that i had to be there csuse he had a certified cheque wfiten to MY NAME! I was crazy busy and took a fast run to the bank to meet him. He was inside and handed me an enveloppe. I started shsking and anxiety build up. Not a good feeling, i felt sick to my stomach.he tried to.make small talk but i could not speak.i was parslysed and wanted to get tjis over and done with. Inside, a cheque of 24 000. He said he wanted to give each of 5 k but decided to keep 1k for him to spoil the kids personally. I walked to the cashier and told her to divide it amoung the 4 kids. As she did, ex-h left. Once in my car, i sent him a picture of the deposit. He asked me why i did this. I could have given them 16 000 and kept 8 000 or give them 5 and keep 4.. My answer: you should have given my share to kim. Why do you want to reward me? I am nothing to you. I deserve NOTHING from you.
I want on a rampage.. i was angry.. ungrateful... full of anger.. I lost it and should have kept my mouth shout. There is more.. i got home, filled a telease of support (FRO ) dated and signed and mailed it out.. Wrote one last text to ex- h reminding him what i had said in the past: remember when i told you not to worry..once the kids schooling and security would be taken care of, you would not have to see or hear from me again? It' s done... THE END.
