New people are making up almost half of what I'm doing and I am grateful for that b/c there's just no associations of h with them.
That was my experience too, and it was a good thing. Also, although I'm sorry for the kids that their childhood home was sold out from under them so abruptly, I'm glad I'm not living there with all the memories.
My new home is a 2350 sf 4 bedroom (spacious by our So Cal standards) and currently full with adult children and my mom. But one option for me down the line, as they move out or move on, would be to rent out some of those bedrooms. To me that's a more attractive choice than downsizing, and the income generated would be a nice addition to my retirement.
When do you come out here for your court date? Maybe we will have to arrange to get together for some (in your case, virgin) margaritas.
As for dating - just keep it simple. No need to get into a whole relationship right away, but some friendly dates and/or booty calls with someone you know already sounds like a nice transition.
BTW - if you haven't seen it yet, The Big Sick is out on pay per view - I really enjoyed it, you probably would too.
