25yearsMLC 10 Later I FILE D part 7

[25yearsmlc]

I like the fact that your kids are on your side. So now he wants to lie that he pays d20 s college fees which he refused. He is trying so badly to ensure you get as little as possible BUT he under estimated you. I pray that it all goes well and you get your fair share.

Wow I'm so happy you got a nice guy who is interested in you. I guess you may try to overlook the physical bit and just enjoy being with him.


Thanks. I was not really looking, tbh. I have thought about looking! I knew him back in high school and college. His name is "G".

I knew and dated him long ago, just before h. So there's a familiar level of comfort with G. He wanted to reassure me that he's solvent and available for a "special lady" and it was very flattering.

But unlike G, I am new to dating. I am new to being single, and I am learning a lot about myself. Coming out of a long m is - even when you are coming to terms with it and feeling at peace - is a startling experience.

Certainly it would be great to have a target for intimate attention.

I like the idea of romantic love & companionship in my life someday. For now, that is enough.

I have a lot of friends and family in my life. New people are making up almost half of what I'm doing and I am grateful for that b/c there's just no associations of h with them.

I like having my own place a lot.

I am not looking to remarry soon, maybe not ever. Of course I realize there's No need to know now.



You are an emotionally intelligent and Iit's a huge loss to H. Enjoy your life and keep focused on your goals. I guess you shouldn't put too much pressure on the first job. After you bounce back you can always improve on job number 2 going forward. The first is always a starting point. I'm praying that the settlement, job hunts will all go well and you will be happy.

thank you Lovelyp, I appreciate it.