Thanks Leahsue. It does feel so more positive but I know it's going to be a long road but worth it if we can crack it. I feel like I should move to the piecing forum but there doesn't seem to be much there so maybe newbies can read my thread and look back through my others and it will help them see that detachment is the key
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17