I don't want to push it any further nor do I want initiate any more discussions, but how should I handle discussion related to D. W definitely wants to do an amicable one. Right now I am in the family home and my income is substantially greater than hers.
In the past if I leave it alone, she will also not pursue it w/me. Now that I confronted her with the EA, I stated I cannot continue to be financially responsible for her actions. We're separated, she can do what she wants I don't need to continue to pay for it. The issue she lives paycheck to paycheck and I don't. So, she feels pressured to pursue D to get more money to respect my boundaries