Hi J9 - Not the badge of honor I was hoping for coming back. But I'm glad There this resource.
So your separated, you found out she cheated on you and you don't want a D. Where do you go from here? How old are your kids? What do you think your next steps are? [/quote]
D-12 / S-10
Where do I go from here: I don't know anymore. I tried for a relatively long time to save the M, and now I feel like a boxer getting hit w/head shots. My next steps are to absolutely detach and continue to be polite in my interactions. I know not having my entire family still scares me, but I also know I can survive w/o W.