Be calm and deliberate when you speak. Check your emotions and some how you have to get over the anger. Anything less is driven from our male ego which we need to harness. We can't operate from a place of revenge. What good will that do? She will sense it, smell it just as she senses when she is loosing you. Call it what you want but I believe women in general instinctively can read a man and his actions. They can see right through us.
