I wonder at times if perhaps I'm actually the OM, and she's the WAS from the first relationship. Perhaps she's come out of her fog, and realizes what she had with him was good. So, she's going home.....
That thought did cross my mind as well. When I read it I was thinking how if it was OM posting here, he'd be talking about you as the OM and how his WAS finally came out of the fog and wanted to recon and everyone would be telling him how great that is. I guess we never stop to think about it from the OM's perspective, that from your perspective he is the OM and from his, you are. It just goes to show that a WAS leaves wreckage behind all over the place. There's no scenario where everyone wins.