Ditto what those before me said. You asked for advice from someone you trust and got it, but don't let that hold you back. You made a mistake, you owned it, it is in the past. I say go for it. I'm sure you will do whatever is right for G and D10 and that really is all that matters. Good luck, lady!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids