I agree with Kaizen. Just get yourself busy and avoid initiating anything.
My H once told me something similar and even decided that it's not an important need and never met it. It's really painful. I wish I had better advice on how to handle that. I just learnt to do without that and never expected him to meet that need but I ecame so unhappy.


M 11 Dated for 4 years before then
Me 35 H 39
D 10
BD Feb 2016
A 2015 Dec
I was never in a R with the OM. Had a one night stand & I stopped contact immediately
I confessed the A to H and we went for MC