I like the fact that your kids are on your side. So now he wants to lie that he pays d20 s college fees which he refused. He is trying so badly to ensure you get as little as possible BUT he under estimated you. I pray that it all goes well and you get your fair share.
Wow I'm so happy you got a nice guy who is interested in you. I guess you may try to overlook the physical bit and just enjoy being with him.
You are an emotionally intelligent and Iit's a huge loss to H. Enjoy your life and keep focused on your goals. I guess you shouldn't put too much pressure on the first job. After you bounce back you can always improve on job number 2 going forward. The first is always a starting point. I'm praying that the settlement, job hunts will all go well and you will be happy.
M 11 Dated for 4 years before then Me 35 H 39 D 10 BD Feb 2016 A 2015 Dec I was never in a R with the OM. Had a one night stand & I stopped contact immediately I confessed the A to H and we went for MC