Before discovering this forum I conducted quite a bit of research. And in the span of any successful MR. There are always a feeling at some point where thatbfluttering feeling is gone. And people have so called fallen out of love and then it comes back automatically. Situation in a MR changes that feeling. Tried to explain that to my W early on. But she wasn't trying to look at those statistics.
People expecting tonwale upvwith that constant fluttering feeling are living in a fantasy. Reality is full of sitches that dictate your feelings. And my W for one admitted to wanting to live this fantasy. But how do you have a fluttering feeling when OM is at home laid upvwith his own W. Who he has no intent on leaving.
Nothing about these sitches says this is the person I am supposed to be with. If so then the expectations are extremely low. And if that is the case why not just stay in your MR? It just seems as if the WS puts themselves in a far worse sitch.
