that would require a lot of patience and PAIN, to get back together after 2 years. it's not much different than my situation though. OM has been waiting in the wings for over 3 years, to welcome my SO back into his arms, and they aren't skipping a beat.I wonder at times if perhaps I'm actually the OM, and she's the WAS from the first relationship. Perhaps she's come out of her fog, and realizes what she had with him was good. So, she's going home.....