Reading AS talking about how recons have happened after years have passed sounds comforting, but I don't know if I will be able to stand that long - but each to their own.
I'm definitely not trying to blow rainbows up everyone's butts about recon chances My point isn't that you should always hold a candle so much as it is this- you don't know what the future holds. It may be a distant recon, it may be a relationship with a hot new chick, it may be a new relationship with a hot young guy, LOL! You're probably chuckling at that but the most conservative man I ever knew in my life- father of two, forever faithful to his wife of 30+ years, lost her to cancer. He grieved, then he started getting inked up and shacked up with a good-looking guy half his age. And I say ROCK ON BROTHER. There is no reason for any of us to curl up and die because of BD. Our lives are what we make of them. You can choose to sit around waiting to die or you can say "f this, I am going to take this sh*t sandwich and make it into a feast fit for a king." Right?
My point isn't that you should always hold a candle so much as it is this- you don't know what the future holds. It may be a distant recon, it may be a relationship with a hot new chick, it may be a new relationship with a hot young guy, LOL! You're probably chuckling at that but the most conservative man I ever knew in my life- father of two, forever faithful to his wife of 30+ years, lost her to cancer. He grieved, then he started getting inked up and shacked up with a good-looking guy half his age. And I say ROCK ON BROTHER. There is no reason for any of us to curl up and die because of BD. Our lives are what we make of them. You can choose to sit around waiting to die or you can say "f this, I am going to take this sh*t sandwich and make it into a feast fit for a king." Right?
