Limerence and My Situation 4

[Parkema]

Fine with you hijacking it's got people talking and that's good..

As you know I find it much easier to understand something that has tangible evidence behind it instead of "experience" although this is good can be VERY relevant to the situation and so biased to a degree. There is obviously trends going on but if you look at the other forums here you will see plenty of piecing also.

Limerence is proven with scientific evidence to back it up and is NOT biased on anything, as I mention many time with this knowledge it could still go three ways but the actual process of limerence does end.

What I was eluding to in my recent post is that I have been detaching well and starting doing some great 180's and enjoying my "single" life a little better. But the general censous I get from the boards is about learning to live with the reality that saving the marriage is almost impossible to achieve, the site has possibly been diluting the "skills" to enable us to do that.

What would MWD say if detachment wasn't working when trying to RC the MR would she suggest trying something different?

I will continue to DR but just suggest we all modify the techniques to suit each other's situation especially if what we're doing NOW isn't working.

Thanks all.

M.