It seems like you were worse off after this interaction than before. I am all up for being positive and chill in short interactions, but the in-house situation makes that very difficult to keep up.

Quote:
"Holding, I know this is a sh1tty situation we're going through, but I want you to know I'm trying to be civil and get along with you. We're going to be a part of each other's lives because of the kids, so I hope we can be friends."


My W basically said the same thing to me, to which I had told her that I have no interest in being her friend. I will be civil and get along with her and communicate completely when it came to the kids, but outside of that, I am not her friend. She didn't say anything to that, but NC and going dark has conveyed that message as well, which is good for me emotionally. I don't care if she thinks I don't care anymore.

I think it is an attempt to friendzone and if you're okay with that, go for it, but I don't think that's the case. I am certainly not okay with that.


No one is coming to save you!