Earlier in the week I did give him a hug and he said I was being too needy but the other day before going to work he came and gave me a hug and kiss but haven't had any more attention in that way since.
You wont ever get it quite right in his eyes. I would say its best to not initiate anything right now and focus instead on your life.
Originally Posted By: jane1
His idea is that I have to make him happy first in order for him to want to make me happy which I believe is not the way its supposed to be.
No. It is not your job to 'make him happy'. And its certainly an unreasonable expectation that you make him happy enough to him to want to make you happy.
That said, it's your job right now to take care of yourself and figure out what makes you happy separate from H.
