Yeah I also liked the story Leahsue. Most of them are not coming back and it's good to have that perspective to be able to detach and find your own life. Reading AS talking about how recons have happened after years have passed sounds comforting, but I don't know if I will be able to stand that long - but each to their own.
I do agree with Tread slightly about the fluttering love thing. I think that to a degree you want that to last forever, but as we all know, love is so much deeper - trust, respect, reliability, comfort, passion etc. That story does sound a bit like limerence gone too long, but good for them if that's what works.
I do want my heart to flutter on occasion, but it's not my primary goal when it comes to love.