Hi Jane I agree I don't think it is too late at all.
Even if you just go to your parents or a friends house on an evening or go for a drive walk. Anything so you don't have to spend time with him, and hear his phone binging will make him wonder. If he asks where you are going just say out, be pleasant but don't give details. He wants to live separate lives so you go and do the same.
Not sure if you have DR book but I find that one really good.
Stay strong SJ
Thanks SJW, my biggest problem is when I'm not home I'm wondering what he is up to and focused on it instead of enjoying time with family or friends. I don't want other women in my house and although we've discussed it and he said he wouldn't - I don't fully believe him so when I'm home its like I'm protecting my house - if that makes sense and I can focus on stuff I like doing on my own.
