Yeah Doodler, Maybe I should have kept that story to myself. The last thing I want to do is bring anyone down. I just saw where I hurt lcause with the story too.
I just don't see how we can heal and find peace if we don't face the fact that some of them aren't coming back, regardless of what we do.
No, please don't take it that way!
It was good that you shared it. As I said, reading it makes the realization more evident. This is exactly what we need. A vast majority of people in our situations will never reconcile.
I do believe that it's quite rare to happen from an affair but that has nothing to do with the possible recon. It's still far more likely the WAS is going to pick someone else after the affair.
In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced 2 young kids new relationship
