Originally Posted By: Maika
But getting outside of your comfort zone is important and I am trying to find things to do that will allow for that.


I highly recommend to anyone going through this that you join a Crossfit box. Books like No More Mister Nice Guy talk about the importance of guys establishing friendships with other guys, well let me tell you, you will never meet more manly men than those in your xfit box, LOL! And there are as many women in xfit these days as men. The environment is such that you can't help but get to know the other people, and you become really close with many of them. Most boxes host parties and mixers and stuff too, so there's opportunities to mingle with the people outside of workouts. It's a great way to get in shape AND meet new people of both sexes! And there's no reason to be intimidated, xfit caters to people of all shapes, sizes, ages and fitness levels.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57