gw, For what it's worth, I think your new attitude is admirable. You'll come to a place of peace a lot sooner since you've let go of the whole revenge thing. Another old saying like the one you quoted is- revenge is like you drinking poison then waiting for the other person to die. I think you're doing great!
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"First the pain, then the rising." Glennon Doyle Melton