so sorry for what you are going throuh. I do not think it is too late. You are doing well by starting to detach. I feel you should try to minimise being in the same room. I am like you GAL is very difficult but I can watch and read my bible and pray more in a different room to avoid initiatin conversations since I used to do that a lot. Since you did not normally o out, oin out will really send a message that he miht loose you so maybe you can try to gather courage and go. I am also trying that too.
I also think this is the best time to start to reflect on all his complaints over the years. Other than sex, what other issues did he complain about?
M 11 Dated for 4 years before then Me 35 H 39 D 10 BD Feb 2016 A 2015 Dec I was never in a R with the OM. Had a one night stand & I stopped contact immediately I confessed the A to H and we went for MC