Letting the Cards Fall

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Overall you seem to be doing well. I have one observstion and that is about you holding back on discussing the insurance. It's nice gesture. Actually it is s Nice Guy trait.

In general I am a believer in doing the "nice" thing as a good way yo live. Hard core people hear will say (and correctly) that she should reap what she sows. Some guys have had their W come back because they didn't protect them financially. They stopped paying regardless of her situation. It wasn't their problem.

I haven't followed your story in depthly so I cannot offer a clear opinion on what is best. I hear you about not wanting the kids to suffer or miss out due to W not having money. That is commendable. I probably would stop the insurance and if possible divert that money to benefit the kids.

Best wishes