OM is going to be introduced to D this weekend(?). Didn't hear it from XW yet though. This is probably going to hit hard.
It's funny how many realizations you get while reading these boards. Even if I think I'm fine without her, reading what Leah wrote for Mark made me realize things and got me feeling really bad. Well, I hope OM is giving her that true love feeling. I think my wife is going to be happier with someone else since I never felt that "heart flutter" with her, outside of the beginning of course. I can definitely see it now how LLs could have fixed that though.
Then I read Joseph's posts and those lists are very good to follow. That's how I am definitely trying to be in the future. Now I have the chance to date as much as I want to and I'm going to get to the point where I'm perfectly happy on my own thus I'm just not going to be needy at all It's amazing how much one can learn about Rs and, well, about the life itself, in here. Thanks for the shared wisdom. I feel much better about my future and I thank my XW for sparking the interest in me to at least try to improve myself. I have a feeling that at some point I will be very grateful because I doubt this would have happened without BD, at least not on the same level.
I met some nice people at the class yesterday. Couldn't join the first few due to work and kids. Too bad they are much older than I am so there is no "true" friendship. Thought it felt good to talk to strangers in a bit more depth. Funny how they were so interested in my situation, which I tried very hard to keep as my own information but felt that lying is worse. I feel it's a buzzkill to talk about it but for some reason people are really interested in either supporting or fixing things.
In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced 2 young kids new relationship
It's amazing how much one can learn about Rs and, well, about the life itself, in here. Thanks for the shared wisdom. I feel much better about my future and I thank my XW for sparking the interest in me to at least try to improve myself. I have a feeling that at some point I will be very grateful because I doubt this would have happened without BD, at least not on the same level.