I didn't follow everything you said. What did she mean by don't do as I wish.
It is good she realises she is in mlc. Admitting/acknowledging that is a great first step. Realising that she can do something about it though may take some time.
Continue on your path towards gratitude and positivity
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
