H revealed to me late last week that there are two Internal Affairs investigations pending against him.
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The detective shared the fact that he thought my H was going to get demoted (who knows if this is true) and my H is messing around with cadets (who knows if this is true). The detective went on and on about how my H is a terrible boss and a terrible human being.
Ummm.....in case you needed any further confirmation that this is NOT ABOUT YOU and that your H is NOT just a wonderful person who got temporary insanity during a MLC, but is actually a deeply flawed person with SERIOUS issues.
Let go, move on (safely). You already got a taste of how nice it is not to walk on eggshells around someone like this.
I couldn't clearly see my ex's narcissism until well after our separation, but boy, I'd sure never want to live with it again!
