I believe you are so right about the being in "love" part. I agree. I don't understand how the porn is not cheating if he is so in love with OW. But I'm not a man. And I am not H.
I have a question that I need help with.
I am turning my back on H; obviously, lol.
This Saturday morning I will be heading out of our home early in the morning to take care of an appliance and furniture delivery at the "new" home and I will bring S with me. How do I handle any questions by H, if he asks where I am going? I certainly don't intend on telling him the truth. My preference would be tell him it is none of his concern (but in a nice way). If I absolutely have to, I can tell him I am going to breakfast with my parents.
There is a part of me that thinks he has a right to know where I am taking S since we are still living under the same roof; but another part of me that thinks he has no right since he filed for D.
