Holding, as I haven't done this yet but I do have to agree with the three above me on this. My W will be asked to leave the house in the next couple of days. We(the kids and me) don't need her anymore! We want her but don't need her. I just wish I had the strength to do this months ago. She is adding nothing anymore, all the things she used to do she doesn't, grocery shopping, laundry, cooking, etc..... she only cooks and prepares meals for herself now, I have taken on everything and I love it! I think this is just the next step in detachment. It is the only way for you(us) to move on, or at least act like your're moving on. Good luck! It is getting easier.
