Yes, I tried to merge suggestions together; which became wordy. And I probably was subconsciously trying to explain exactly where I was - but I can see how I overstepped my role in this by using soo many words. I just hope it didn't put me many steps back.
I thought my first comment had an appropriate validation.
She responded exactly how you did predict. And, I assume she is not going to want to meet today after work like we planned yesterday. I will continue NC; and I have GAL plans this weekend.
It defiantly hurts the W still does not even say anything of an apology about the A/OM; but continues to blame me for being the same person. I know deep down, I am trying NOT to be the same person I was. I am taking a firm stance on what I want in a R or a MR; I am not allowing steamrolling over my emotions by my W; I am requiring certain actions by my W in order for us to continue...which I would have never done in the past. I would simply avoid all of the by pleading with her, and begging, without caring about the A/OM, or at least not bringing it up.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
