Well, you used way too many words. My guess is you were trying to apply all that had been suggested. Also, when validation does come naturally for some men, they end up sounding as if they are telling a woman how she feels and what she wants. Women don't like that.
So now, just go on about your business. She is responding the way I predicted, so don't try to contact her, and don't shift your stand. Don't sweat her accusations. She just wants to keep you in a holding pattern.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
My guess is you were trying to apply all that had been suggested. Also, when validation does come naturally for some men, they end up sounding as if they are telling a woman how she feels and what she wants. Women don't like that.
