Help needed from Far-east.

[Lovelyp]

Can I start the conversation first and talk about fun stuffs when my daughter is around on the weekend? My daughter is starting to guess about what happen to me and my wife.


You can talk to your daughter more and involve her in your activities. Talking to your wife and initiating conversations may seem you are desperate about hiding anything from d. just be warm, polite and respectful to her alwats and dont burden yourself with initiating conversations. Don't act to cover up anything because you are not the one who is responsible for causing this situation. I avoid saying you are not guilty because you are now equally guilty because you are sleeping around too. You don't have to make yourself dirty because someone else is dirty. If you are a principled person stick to them and stooping to her level and sleeping around only takes away your self worth. You are responsible for your actions and there a consequences to your health both mentally and physically. Remember condoms are not fool proof because there is still skin contact (diseases like hepatitis B, genital herpes and genital watts can be contracted). If you contract any disease from sleeping with women can you live with it?





Again, Can I include my wife in the activities when doing things with my daughter? Or I can just show her how happy I am with my daughter?

Try to be happy with your daughter alone. Don't try to involve her BUT if she asks to join don't stop her. Try to GAL and show her you are content and happy.
Those things she complained about make sure to assess them and do a self assessment of any other areas you lack.