Limerence and My Situation 4

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I again have a niggling feeling that the detachment I’m so much better at is counter-productive in my situation. Does anybody feel that due to us BS detaching the WS gives up hope for RC and instead spends more energies trying to make a success of the A and see it as their only solution..?

I have never heard of or read about any WS hoping for recon whole they were in an ongoing A (or a now "genuine" relationship with OP). The only one here holding on to hope for recon right now, is you Mark. The only solution for her is the new relationship and that is all that is on her mind. If she hoped for a recon, all she would have to do is ask, right?