WW last night sent me a Whatsapp photo of a parents evening appointment coming up and text me to say she’d done it, I DR’ing never responded to the text. This morning my boys needed to inform their school of when to expect me and whilst I was FaceTiming them WW asked if I could respond as S8 was concerned that this had not been sorted for him, S8 has some vulnerability issues about him and whittles a lot if he feel out of control.
Anyway I stated the time and realised WW would be away with AP/LO on their romantic 4-night's away which she keeps reminding me of. Anyway as I was talking via FaceTime I thought I overheard her mention to S8 that she is now Miss maiden name and no longer Mrs my name. This amazes me as she didn’t want to have a different name to those of her children, what does this say about her mind set now? I again have a niggling feeling that the detachment I’m so much better at is counter-productive in my situation. Does anybody feel that due to us BS detaching the WS gives up hope for RC and instead spends more energies trying to make a success of the A and see it as their only solution..?
MWD would suggest if it doesn’t work do something else…
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
