So this was the text convo with W for the part hour after her texts from above.
Me: it has been a while; and i see why you would not understand where my head is at. I am talking about (Mr.X) the OM; I am not interested in being disrespected in a relationship if another man is still involved.
Me: I know what I really need is to work on is myself. So that is where I'm place my focus. I know that you dont want the M anymore due to the S and wanting a D, and telling your family it is what you wanted. So I am respecting your wishes and not applying any pressure on you.
W: that's cowardly and an easy way out. Im still fighting for this clearly if I am continually reaching out and you're doing nothing. If you want something you work on it and fight for it and make an effort and I may have made mistakes in the last couple of months but I've never stopped communicating to you and I've never stopped trying to make an effort now and then and I feel nothing from you anymore.
W: I've tried to ask to talk to you and I've tried to see you and I just get shut down. You're doing exactly what I've been bitching about for almost two years. When I want more from you and effort. You back away and show no effort. Maybe I've been disrespectful and immature at times over the last few wees but at least I'm trying and showing you emotion and trying to communicate.
W: You've done none of that and I can't take it anymore. I'm sorry if any of this is coming off wrong but I'm just really at a loss for words on all this. I just don't understand if you want something how you can just let it go so easily. It's been hurtful and hard for me to understand and makes me mad and I'm doing anything to try to get emotion out of you. I guess I don't have anything left to say now too. Wish we could have talked in person. Have a good night.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
