I am trying to re-read through your nice-guy WW threads to figure out exactly how to handle that part of the R. I know I want to not be disrespected by an open R, and will not tolerate it...But I am trying to find more readings on this.
Have you read the threads about the wayward wife and what to expect from her? If not, you may want to look through them before reading about the nice guy.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
