Thank you AS for the break down of my conversation with the W. I thought i was on the same page when it came to validation turns out im not even in the same book....
Oh well something to work on...
So now a small update..
W has stayed in contact everyday if we dont see her in person there is a phone call in the evening. We went for a drive as a couple a few days ago everything was easy going then i could tell she was getting anxious i stop the car and asked if she was all right...she waas quiet for a long time then said ...things are so different...
I asked her if it was a good thing she hesitated then said yes. We have 3 family planned outings that the w seems very excited about.
The kids are away this week end and the w asked me out for a early evening dinner with a hint at some plan for after.
