Help needed from Far-east.

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But from what you are saying here, it's as if she wants to file but just not yet.

They are not ready to be completely together yet. Also, my wife can't give up what she has now easily. Family, business, and daughter are still her concern. Plus, she want me to stick around as a business partner if I could. I feel like deep down inside, she just like the feeling of being in love again that all.

I would tell her

"W, I'm sorry that hurt you. If I had it all to do over again, there are many things I'd do differently" and move on to the present.

I tried that many time already. She said "Too little too late". She has already in a new relationship and she doesn't want to go back.

As for your wife's bone pain, I'm sorry but I don't see how that is related to infertility treatments.

In order to do In-Vitro-Fertilization, she has to inject some medicine to adjust her hormone which effect her bone mass and bone strength. But she is getting better now. Thank you 25 : )

And can you move to the USA for you and your D, (regardless of what your w plans)?

Me and my daughter are US citizen. If I want to move to USA, I have to find some business to do first.

However, my daughter will go to high school in USA in 2 years which is perfect excuse for my wife to go meet her OM if they are still together.