The fact that my W is the mother of my children I don't think I can 100% close the door on a possible recon.
I guess I can see where you're coming from on that.
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What I do know is that it would take an intense amount of work on her part which at the present moment I feel is next to impossible.
I think this part is really important - they have to do an intense amount of work, otherwise the LBS just ends up in the same place as before. I think that so much time has passed and with water under the bridge, you would be really looking at reconnecting with someone completely new - the old W is gone you know.
