At this point, even if she came back to me, I dont think any amount of counseling could save the marriage.
Based on what? Your feelings......her feelings.....the betrayal......What?
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My question for the board... is it wrong for me to continue on like this? We
Wrong based on DBing? You just said you didn't think any amount of counseling could save the M. So, how do you mean "wrong"?
Your ability to laugh it off when she's angry, and how you seemingly are handling things pretty well.....considering......may be temporary, unless you really have been able to drop the rope.
Btw, I wanted to make a comment regarding you showing her your texts from OM's W. Just remember, you don't have to prove that your word is good.....unless you have been a liar. You don't have to prove your fidelity......unless you have been unfaithful. You do not have to prove you are trustworthy.....unless you have abused someone's trust.
I don't have a lot to add right now, so I'll tell you what I would say to any man in any position. As you go forward, remember to be a man of strength, moral courage, honor and integrity. Whenever your emotions get in the way of thinking clearly and you aren't sure what is right or wrong...go back to your core values and remember what you believe in and stand for.....and be the kind of man you want your son to be one day, and the kind you want your daughter to marry. These should be the things that help to guide you, when you are confused and not sure which way to turn. It's not always easy to do, but it is always worth it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
