What to Do? 3

[chris19]

sandi - I am so appreciative you were able to respond here.

It's too late this time, but next time you may want to respond with, "Unless something has changed since our last talk, I have nothing else to discuss at this time".

Yes, I was hoping by asking W; "would you specifically let me know what you want to talk about"...it was my indirect way of asking what you said above. I guess I failed there and should have been direct.

Also, it would be better to meet in a public setting.

I actually had the idea of meeting a restaurant right by our works instead; and was going to tell her lets meet there tomrw.

You know what you need her to do, in order to reconcile (don't you?), and until she is committed to do it......this "talk" is just more of her BS.

Unless she asks what will it take to try again, you are not interested, hopeful, or impressed by her little talk.

I am trying to re-read through your nice-guy WW threads to figure out exactly how to handle that part of the R. I know I want to not be disrespected by an open R, and will not tolerate it...But I am trying to find more readings on this.