Next text; "We basically haven't talked in over a month so I want to be sure we're on the same page".
Whenever the WW says you need to in a meet and talk.......beware! It's too late this time, but next time you may want to respond with, "Unless something has changed since our last talk, I have nothing else to discuss at this time".
Also, it would be better to meet in a public setting. In public, there are less chances of a dramatic scene. If she goes to your house, she is more in charge about when she leaves. If you go to hers, you can leave when you want.....but she'd likely set you up for a sexual temp check there (wearing little clothing, etc.). It's a temp check where ever you meet her, so be ready.
Your best approach is to be disinterested in her little game. Don't ask questions about how she's doing, or anything. Don't offer any information to her. Don't contribute to the conversation. This is her called meeting......not yours. Why are you sweating it? Don't be taken in by any tricks she pulls out of her little bag (like squeezing out a few tears and saying she doesn't know what she wants). Be strong, and show her you not impressed!
Sorry to disagree with some, but having another relationship talk will not benefit you, until she is ready to do the right thing. However, she is not there yet. She wants to have a regular talk? Nope, doesn't work, and it does not help bring you back together.
You know what you need her to do, in order to reconcile (don't you?), and until she is committed to do it......this "talk" is just more of her BS.
Unless she asks what will it take to try again, you are not interested, hopeful, or impressed by her little talk. You need to act as if you have too much going for you. Your disinterest will cause her to believe she may be really be losing you. That's the temporary goal.....to act as if you have let her go.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
