The fact that my W is the mother of my children I don't think I can 100% close the door on a possible recon. What I do know is that it would take an intense amount of work on her part which at the present moment I feel is next to impossible. I do know I have zero interest in being in one sided relationship which I was for the last three years.
I am running free. (still in the D process) I met a girl 11 years younger them me at the beach this past weekend. We are complete opposites but were both intrigued by one another. After spending one day with her she said your W has to be a fool to leave you.
Once you guys get to the point where you realize you are going to be fine one way or another and get your "quan" back for yourself, you will start loving life again.
