Now go away or I will taunt you a second time

[LoisB]

Twenty-four hours into a time-out. It's really helping. Getting back into the flow of my life.

Ellie, No, I would not seek out someone on a dating app/after a date with the remarks he made. Still, I've confronted him on some of what he has said, and he admits to feeling very scared being face-to-face with us after all he has done. When Matt is scared, he says stupid shid. I can see that. Time will tell.

I need to get clear on what I'm looking for in a partner. What do I want? What dynamic with Matt am I not interested in repeating? Am I able to have a NEW relationship with him? I'm not sure.

All I know for certain, the girls and I have missed him in our lives. But, that doesn't necessarily mean he needs to be my romantic partner. And, it's way too soon for that anyway.

I know I still need to create a solid business and financial life. I'm getting there, but have a way to go.

Just thinking out loud.

Thanks for the feedback. Have an awesome day.