I really struggle trying to put goals to the list! I understand they need to be action orientated but with my WW no longer available to me it gives me an extremely short window to demonstrate the changes to her.
To create a list of goals for me to change is easier and its maybe here I could/should focus on, I’ll look at this and post when I have the time. I feel this must be the way to go now as RC is basically fast becoming a pipedream and I really need to realise that the future does not include WW any more. So the goals will be about making me a better “future” partner.
Thanks for your time.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".