I must admit my WW early in the A (before I moved out of the FH) did say she had finished with her AP/LO and then went on to say she would be visiting friends on the same day has his birthday! I basically hung her out to dry with that one and she confessed the next time I saw her, I understand the pain.
Are you going to DR again..?
Be strong, take care.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".