Help needed from Far-east.

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I'd like to tell you my background before all this happened.

I was a graduate student in USA while I got my wife pregnant. I worked part-time and sold stuffs on eBay. I made enough money for us three.

Unfortunately, we came back here, I worked with her family. I feel that nothing was mine. I started to look for another business opportunities for myself for us. Then, she told me, I don't have to look for anything else, this is our business together.

She was working very hard, raising my daughter, doing housework. She was so stress. I didn't help her much back then. I felt like living in the cage. I just want to get out, be independent. We fought a lot on the first 5 yrs.

5 yrs later I kinda got use to living in this safety cage. I stopped looking for anything else to do. Just stayed in business. We tried to have another kid. We went to the doctor and failed many time 'til we gave up.

Last five years was OK to me. However, she suffered the pain(bones problem) from trying to have a baby. I let her stay home, went to the doctor with my driver. I took care of business. However, she kept saying that she was getting tired of this business and she wanted out. She want to go live in USA. I ignored her complaint.

Then one day, she told me that I should find my own business. Be apart and she wanted to be in an open relationship.

This is some of her complaints

1. I never helped her anything on first 5yrs.
2. I wanted to have kid without caring about her health.
3. I didn't take her to see the doctor by myself.
4. I always take our daughter to every vacation.
5. People said, I'm looked younger than her.
6. My family don't love her.
7. I didn't find anything else to make more income.
8. I ignored her request of going to USA.
9. We see each other too much.
10. I cannot change. ETC....